How to Understand a Man’s Expectations in a Dating Chat

When a man starts a chat on an international dating site, he is anticipating something interesting for himself. If his expectations are not met, and he realizes that he won’t get what he came for or find who he was looking for, and if the experience is boring, banal, or even silly, he often leaves without saying “goodbye.” Returning is then highly unlikely.

Ladies, Translators, Operators, Consultants of marriage and dating agencies—catch these 5 truths for communicating with the Men you are interested in.

1. A Man’s Response to a Chat Invitation

This is already half of your understanding of his interest. It’s simple. You have essentially started the conversation in the right direction because you guessed his interest when you sent him a message (of course, if your invitation wasn’t just “How are you?”).

Continue and develop the topic he responded to, but progressively.

2. Attention to Details

This means you need to carefully follow what the Man says or writes in the chat. If you are too absorbed in talking about yourself and fail to notice or catch a detail in his reply and continue your topic, that’s bad.

Because if he said something, he wanted to say it, wanted you to notice, be interested, and continue talking about it.

This means it is important to him. And you—talking about your own stuff 🙁 Well, okay.

3. Understanding Who is Leading

This is a subtle topic, and without experience or psychology, it can be tough, but try to determine who is “leading the dance.”

Do not take the initiative if the Man strives to be more active in the dialogue. Why? Relax and communicate; his activity is a sign that he is interested in chatting with the Girl. Give him the opportunity to be the leader.

If you understand that giving the initiative to the Man will stop the “dance” or even put you to sleep in the chat (and you don’t want to part with this Man), then switch to the “white dance” mode, heating his interest with captivating communication and pleasant emotions.

Sometimes Men want to trust and relax.

4. About Support

Think about it: when do we talk about our problems? When we want sympathy, a fresh idea on how to get out, or specific help. And even if we are a hundred times wrong, we want someone to notice something right in our actions or intentions. Isn’t it true?

If not, people simply keep silent about their difficulties.

So, if a Man talks about a problem, he is waiting for something from the above. If he doesn’t get it, he will be upset. You understand…

5. You Can Also Ask

The best way to understand what to do is just to ask.

Surely, everyone has an example when you want one thing, but people try to “please” you with something completely different.

And you think with disappointment: “Well, couldn’t you just ask what I really want and dream about???”

You can always find out what needs to be done.

But learning to ask is a skill 🙂

Start implementing these tips in life.

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